Thursday, April 30, 2015

First impressions last so make it a good one




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When you meet someone for the first time, it doesn't take much to make that all-important first impression; some even say it takes only a few seconds. In those moments, the person you're meeting rapidly takes inventory of your smile, your stance, and the overall presentation of yourself. However, you shouldn't be so afraid of new encounters; there are ways that you can ensure that you can make a great first impression. Here are just some of them:

Arrive early

A person who doesn't respect other people's time is hard to trust. When you set up a meeting for, let's say 1pm, you should be there at least 15 minutes before the designated time. Making people wait for you to arrive will definitely leave a negative impression.

Dress appropriately

Dress according to whom you're meeting and what you're meeting for. If it's an important professional meeting, then prepare your best business attire. Your physical appearance says a lot about you before you even get a chance to speak so make sure you're presentable.



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Listen attentively

You have to let the person you're meeting feel like they're important to you by listening when they talk. Make eye contact for the full effect of attentiveness and really listen to what they're saying and not just appear as such.

Talk politely but confidently

Always remember to treat other people with respect and courtesy and they will return the gesture. When you talk, it's also important to project self-confidence and assuredness. Acting nervous can show in the way you converse and may cause the person you're meeting some discomfort.

Smile

Use your best asset to make a great first impression. Your body language speaks volumes about who you are, so do it with a smile. It will make you appear approachable, friendly, and easy to get along with.


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Hi, I am Lou Habash and I'm an image consultant based in California. For more tips on improving your image, follow me on Facebook.