Thursday, April 18, 2013

REPOST: Power suit

How can fashion endow a woman with confidence? This recent article from Vogue.com shares the domination of power suits.



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The idea that fashion could empower women to accomplish more—in all of their changing roles—stretches back to the streamlined innovations of the 1920s, when women were liberated from their corsets. And it gained major ground during the women’s movement of the 1970s, when pants became the daily uniform of a generation of Charlie girls. But it undoubtedly reached its apogee in the 1980s, with the rise and eventual world domination of the power suit.

“The women here, the women everywhere, talk about a new confidence,”[1] Vogue reported in 1983, in a fashion portfolio called “The New Active Style,” which featured suits designed to carry the wearer seamlessly from her executive position in the Financial District to her position behind a baby carriage in Central Park.

The phrase power dressing was first brought to the public’s attention in the mid-1970s by John T. Molloy. A good wardrobe, he argued in his Dress for Success books, doesn’t necessarily turbocharge your career—but a poor one invariably will sink it. The silver-bullet solution of the power-dressing concept was a suit that exaggerated a woman’s shoulders, giving her a more aggressive and masculine silhouette. Women were encouraged to appropriate and adapt menswear to endow themselves with an aura of authority. Typically, the power suit had two matching pieces—initially, just skirts on bottom, but later trousers were advised—in a color that meant business: black, gray, blue (navy or pale), or perhaps beige. The jacket was oversize, often double-breasted, with shoulders that extended well beyond the contours of the natural body. A white shirt with a floppy bow tie, along with nude hosiery and basic pumps, completed the look.

Like the European automobiles that yuppies coveted because they made the driver look not just rich but influential and important, the power suit made a woman look like she was somebody. “A suit is a power suit when you arrive, at a board meeting or a hotel, and everybody takes note. You are nicely greeted, they know who you are,”[2] Renate Gunthert, designer of the German Rena Lange collection, has said.

The names most associated with the trend were: Giorgio Armani, who was famous for his unstructured look, with softer jackets elegantly suspended from wide, sloping shoulders; and Donna Karan, who gave it a slightly sexier spin, adding wrap skirts, for instance, and more curves. Also major players in the power game were Liz Claiborne, Ann Taylor, and Calvin Klein. At the time, there was a stricter divide between the clothing styles of the subculture and those favored by the mainstream, and everyone who was anyone in the established corridors of power—from Hollywood to Milan to Washington—wanted to be seen sipping Perrier with a dash of Campari in a linen or silk designer suit. The transformative powers of the suit were taken as a given by the mid-eighties. When Melanie Griffith—playing the Aqua Net–addicted, wise-talking outer-boroughs kid in the 1988 movie Working Girl—plotted her rise up from the secretarial pool, she started by raiding her boss’s closet for a chic black suit (and taming her big hair).

By the turn of the next decade, however, the idea of power dressing was becoming an anachronism. “The message of competence and confidence sent by the woman in a gray pin-striped suit has been received,” Vogue reported in January 1990, “and the majority of designers feel it’s time to move on.”[3] Women no longer believed their career trajectory had to be predicated on the appropriation of masculine gestures. Power, after all, should come as naturally to talented women as it does to talented men. Shoulder pads went out. Jackets grew smaller and smaller. (Eventually, around 2000, they would ultimately reach the “shrunken” stage: With the narrowest of shoulders, and shorter, tighter sleeves, they hit at the hipbone, not the upper thigh.)

No one, these days, questions the tenet that fashion can endow a woman with confidence. We all understand that clothing can be worn like a costume, or armor, to help us do battle in the social or career sphere. “Dress for the job you want, not the job you have,” people say. . . . But the Zeitgeist’s dream job is no longer on Wall Street.

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Monday, April 15, 2013

REPOST: How to boost your self-confidence

Find out the benefits of having more self-confidence in this More-Selfesteem.com article.

Before we start talking about the steps you should follow in order to boost your self confidence let's think about the benefits that more confidence will give you. How would your life be better if you were more confident?

If you were confident you would definitely worry less and you would believe in your abilities to succeed in whatever you need to do. You would be happier and less stressed. You would feel more excited about living. New opportunities would become possible for you in an instant. Self confidence helps you to believe that you can overcome the most difficult of challenges and enjoy being successful. Your negativity would be a thing of the past and rather than listen to negative comments from others you would encourage yourself to be the fantastic person you know you can be.

Happiness is something that comes from enjoying the challenges that life throws at you and new confidence will bring you both success and happiness. It is often said that happiness is not a result but enjoying the journey you take towards achieving something. How can you enjoy your life's journey if you are fearful and negative and lack self confidence?

Confidence will bring you benefits both personally and professionally. Getting a great job and becoming successful in it demands confidence. If you have it you will earn the respect of others and this will boost you further.

If you lack self confidence there is one enemy waiting for you who can strike at any moment. That enemy is depression. One way of avoiding depression is to build your self esteem. Liking yourself is a big part of becoming more confident. Your self esteem will protect you from negative comments and criticisms from others.

Follow These Steps to Become More Confident:

  • Build your self esteem by considering the things you like about yourself and those you don't. Think about all the things you do like about yourself and write them down where you can read them each day. Now think about everything you don't like about yourself. Could be your weight, your appearance, whatever. Here's a truth: you have two choices for each thing you don't like - either accept it or change it. You cannot change many things so you have to learn how to accept them. The things you can change such as your weight or your fitness you need to get motivated and design a plan to take action and create the change you want. You'll need willpower but if you truly want to change something then YOU CAN.
  • One thing you may like to change is your appearance. You can chage how you look and how you feel very quickly by dressing differently. Spending some money on new clothes that make you feel great can have a very positive effect on you and those around you. If you look confident, you'll feel confident. 

  • One mistake people often make when trying to build self esteem and confidence is that they concentrate too much on themselves and forget that one of the most important ways to get more from life, (whatever you seek), is to give first. How can this help? If you give others compliments, smiles and positive words then they will return them to you. A giving person receives so much more than he or she gives. Be generous and kind to others and you will attract people who will help you to live a happier and more enjoyable life. Your confidence will soar!
  • Fears grow with negative thinking and if you avoid the things which scare you your confidence will drop. For example, giving presentations is a common fear but being successful at them will bring many benefits to you both professionally and personally. You should face your fears and work to overcome them so that your success will boost your self belief. Avoiding the things you fear most will make them stronger and hurt your confidence. No pain, no gain! 
  • You may have a problem with shyness and if so this may make you avoid certain situations or social events. Being sociable is so important in so many areas of life and if you avoid social situations you find difficult the result is as we just described above. Being shy does not have to be permanent. It is something you can certainly change. I used to be very shy but I worked on it and now enjoy my life like I never could when I was suffering. Shyness will almost certainly affect your self confidence in a bad way so you need to do something about it. 
  • Find your motives. What most motivates you? 1. success and achievment 2. giving to others 3. being loved. Once you know what motivates you then you can plan what to do to become more confident. Be careful about the third option though because being dependent on others for their approval and love is another trap so many people fall into.
  • Know your strengths and your limits. Start with your strengths as these are positive. What are your real strengths? How can you live your life and use these strenghts more? This requires self awareness. Spending time to better know yourself is the beginning of real self improvemant and is neve time wasted. After you list your strengths you do need to consider your limits so that you can decide where you need to improve or if there are things you should choose to avoid. Be careful not to confuse your real limits with your negative beliefs about your abilities. Honesty with yourself is a big part of self awareness.

The Most Important thing to Remember

We have looked at some real steps you can take now to boost your self confidence and I have one final thing to say here. The most important factor of all in regards to your self esteem or confidence is what you think you can do, what you think and not what others tell you.

So be bold and go for it! Decide yourself what you will do and how you will do it and don't give up until you succeed. The rewards are well worth it!


Lou Habash specializes in image consulting and public relations. Visit this website for more articles on self-improvement.